The elephant in the room is an effective figuration for thinking about truth telling. (This is the subject of a forum: Speaking Truth to Reconciliation that I am participating in this weekend.) This image points to what is not being said, and whether there are obvious truths that are being ignored or going unaddressed. While the idiomatic expression applies to an obvious problem no one wants to discuss, it is also about taking note of the atmosphere in the room and acting in reciprocity with it.
(Image: Maurizio Cattelan Not Afraid of Love, 2000 )
Elephants communicate through snorts, trumpeting and croaking sounds. The rumbles that an elephant produces are usually too low in pitch for humans to hear, about twenty hertz, but to other elephants, they sound like lively conversation. Researchers believe that elephants use these infrasonic growls to communicate over long distances, perhaps as far as six miles. Elephants also send messages through the ground to each other. I wonder whether these underground and subterranean messages might be thought of as counter publics, voices that are often, though not always, below the radar. Many artists, curators and critics are engaged in a hybrid model informed by almost secretive, counter-pubic manifestations, distributed events and counter-mediums in response to the homogenizing effects of the mass media. According to Sven Lutticken in his essay “Secrecy and Publicity: Reactivating the Avant-Garde”, a counter public is “an audience that to some extant has a subordinated social status, and is critical of mainstream media and the prevailing ideology”.
One of the key characteristics of Speaking Truth to Reconciliation is a commitment to generosity and generous interactions, which is extended to intellectual thought. Often, criticality translates as a hard-edged authority and rigidity rather than a dynamic dialogue that adapts to participants and context. How do we navigate and hear what another says without responding exclusively to highly charged emotions or personal politics? What does it mean to take on this role and how does it affect transformation both for the speaker and the audience?
Speaking truth is one thing. Doing this with a commitment to generosity, truthfulness, and reconciliation means taking one’s time in how ideas and feelings are put into words. Zen monk and poet Norman Fisher’s own practice attempts to speak truth with generosity. “This raises the question of how we speak the truth — skillfully or unskillfully, thoroughly or with only a few details, kindly or not so kindly, at the right time or at the wrong time. In what style and at what pace do we communicate this version of the truth? With what attitude and tone of voice? All of these factors make more of a difference than you might think, not just in style but in substance.”
Ganesh is one of the best-known and most widely worshipped deities in the Hindu pantheon. Ganesh is the God of knowledge, remover of obstacles through moving forward but also the creator of obstacles. He is worshipped, and remembered in the beginning of any auspicious performance for blessings and auspiciousness. He is the Lord of New Beginnings.

